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How to get through tantrums

Dealing with tantrums is never easy. No matter how many times you have to deal with them, it’s still hard. Sometimes the dumbest thing will make your child throw a tantrum, and it looks like nothing you say or do can stop it from happening. So, the next best thing to do is to learn how to deal with them when they happen. And here are some ideas for handling tantrums when they happen.

Stay calm.

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The most important thing to do when a tantrum happens is to try to stay calm. I say try because God knows that it is hard to stop your self from screaming. But you have to calm down, that’s the only way you can get a hold of the situation.

The louder she yells, the softer your voice should be.

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If your child is throwing a tantrum and is screaming his head off, the worst thing you can do is start screaming yourself. Because it’s only going to become a screaming competition, and you will accomplish nothing. But, if you start lowering your voice, you will be able to get more attention from your child.

Understand why she reacted so strongly.

The most important thing to do when dealing with tantrums is to try to understand why she reacted so strongly and what triggered that tantrum. That way, you can find a way to help your kid.

Create diversion.

When a tantrum starts, you can not stop it, but you can try to create a diversion so that your child engaged and interested in something else and forget about the meltdown they just had.

Get out of there.

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And the final step is to get your child away from the place where they just had a meltdown. Change of the venue will make your child snap back quickly.

I hope you find these tips helpful, and if you have any other tips on how to get through the tantrums and meltdowns, please tell me in the comments below.

Until next time, my darling, please stay safe, I love you, and I will talk to you soon.

XO

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